Goans
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Being Goan “O these Goans
“ exclaimed my Goan friend who lives in Borda, in South Goa. “Are you not
Goan?” I asked. To which she replied, “No, I’m talking about these Goans from
Goa”. I then realised there were so many types of Goans. The Goans from Bombay
who consider themselves a class apart. They love everything Goan but cannot
ever think of living in Goa.
They just spend a few days a year
in Goa to stock up on their Feni, sausages, vinegar, Masalas. And always tell
stories of how much property their family had. And the great summer holidays
they spent as kids. Then there is the Goan from Africa. Many have now returned
to Goa after the process of Kenyanisation in the 1970’s. They are an affluent
lot who were the educated class of artists, lawyers doctors and entrepreneurs.
As an outsider living here I have
noticed that in almost all Goan families you will find either a dentist or a
lawyer. Or both. Then there is the Portuguese Goan who fluently speaks
Portuguese at home. Holds a Portuguese passport but continues to live in Goa.
And to show you how different they are, if invited for a meal you will be
served “feijoada” or "Pastel de Nata".
The women in these families all
learn baking and are excellent cooks. I asked a Goan girl I often meet why she
is not taking a Portuguese passport as many seem to be doing this. Her reply
was “ We spent years chasing them out.
We should be happy they are gone. Not follow them back!” Honestly, I had never
seen it that way but was amused with her way of thinking.
The British Goans are not the
same as the Portuguese Goans. But pretty close. Cos many of them have
Portuguese passports but worked in the UK before Brexit. They come to Goa more
often. They love being Goan and are well travelled and in spite of the best
Single Malt within their reach, they still prefer the good old Feni. Goans have
left their land and travelled all over the world. Canada, USA, Malaysia,
Australia and parts even the Malayalees have not reached.
And many when they return realise
that, they had gone too long and someone else has taken their land. I had
fallen in love with Goa on my very first trip in the 1980s when the Porvorim
water tank was the only landmark on NH66 that told you, you had to turn to take
the road to go to Calangute. It’s not the same any more. But Goa is still
beautiful. I love GOA.
18 Sep 2024, 17:55
Mena
What a beautiful answer!
Comparison between two "Generations" ....... Everyone must read A
youngster asked his father: "How did you people live before with- No air
conditioned vehicle, No Wifi No internet No computers No online shopping No TVs
No air cons No mobile phones? No shopping Mall No multiplexes" His Dad
replied: "Just like how your generation lives today with - No prayers No
compassion No honour No respect No character No shame No modesty No time
planning No sports No reading." "We, the people born between
1940-1980 are the blessed ones.
Our life is living proof: While
playing and riding bicycles, we never wore helmets. After school, we played
until dusk. We never watched TV. We played with real friends, not internet
friends. If we ever felt thirsty, we drank tap water, not bottled water. We
never got ill although we used to share the same glass of juice with four
friends. We never gained weight although we used to eat a lot of rice every day.
Nothing happened to our feet despite roaming bare feet. our mother and father
never used any supplements to keep us healthy. We used to create our own toys
and play with them. Our parents were not rich. They gave us love, not worldly
materials.
We never had cellphones, DVDs, PlayStation,
XBox, video games, personal computers, or internet chat - but we had real friends.
We visited our friends' homes uninvited and enjoyed food with them. unlike your
world, we had relatives who lived close by so family time and ties were enjoyed
together. We may have been in black and white photos but you will find
colourful memories in those photos. We are a unique and, the most understanding
generation, because we are the last generation who listened to their parents.
Also, the first who have had to listen to their children. And we are the
ones who are still smarter and helping you now to use the technology that never
existed while we were your age!!! We are a LIMITED edition! So you
better - Enjoy us. Learn from us. Treasure us. Before we disappear from
Earth and your lives."
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